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Angebadge

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:44pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:44pm

tebo53 wrote on Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:42pm:

Alexa is a device that is connected to the internet that you can shout basic questions to and expect an automatic answer. 

Some posters type their questions on here in a similar fashion without manners!

Steve 

Hey Steve

😂😂😂😂😂🤪🥂

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:47pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:47pm

tebo53 wrote on Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:42pm:

Alexa is a device that is connected to the internet that you can shout basic questions to and expect an automatic answer. 

Some posters type their questions on here in a similar fashion without manners!

Steve 

I consider myself to be polite and i agree with you 100 percent on politeness.... But if Alexa is just a machine then why does it manner how you speak to it, im assuming it won't be offended if people dont say please or thank you 

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:48pm

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Angebadge wrote on Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:44pm:

Hey Steve

😂😂😂😂😂🤪🥂

Sorry just clocked onto what ya ment

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:54pm

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Martyn1986 wrote on Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:47pm:

I consider myself to be polite and i agree with you 100 percent on politeness.... But if Alexa is just a machine then why does it manner how you speak to it, im assuming it won't be offended if people dont say please or thank you 

Sorry Martyn but you don't get the point of my post....

When posters ask questions on this forum they will be trying to interact with other human beings who spend their time helping with their queries. Well I expect a little respect with use of manners...get it?

Alexa is designed and programmed to receive a demanding style of questions...we don't expect that style on this forum. 

Steve 

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:00pm

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Sometimes, just sometimes, it’s a joy 😂😂😂🤪🥂

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:01pm

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tebo53 wrote on Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:54pm:

Sorry Martyn but you don't get the point of my post....

When posters ask questions on this forum they will be trying to interact with other human beings who spend their time helping with their queries. Well I expect a little respect with use of manners...get it?

Alexa is designed and programmed to receive a demanding style of questions...we don't expect that style on this forum. 

Steve 

Yea a misread it sorry, I got what you meant after I replied. I do read alot of the posts and replies, tbh i think this forum is very polite, although Im new on here I havent read anything that i would consider offence, some questions that really shouldn't be asked but majority is just general chit-chat. I came off Facebook years ago because it was all negativey and nasty/rudeness. 

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:03pm

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Angebadge wrote on Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:00pm:

Sometimes, just sometimes, it’s a joy 😂😂😂🤪🥂

I know ange...You couldn't make it up sometimes...😂😂😂🍻

Steve 

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:08pm

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Angebadge wrote on Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:00pm:

Sometimes, just sometimes, it’s a joy 😂😂😂🤪🥂

Haha........ oh it is Ange, I would also  like to thank Tebo53  for his patience 

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:26pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:26pm

The thing on here which does get missed by people is the " like " button. I use this a lot as a "thank you" as well.

Fully agree with the topic and people which have responded accordingly.

So for the avoidance of doubt........

THANK YOU

PS. Alexa just doesn't listen sometimes!

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:54pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:54pm

tebo53 wrote on Tue Sep 29, 2020 2:22am:

I’ll come straight go the point here that the lack of manners from some posters is atrocious!

I was educated to say please and thank you from a very early age but since “Alexa" was born to the world those manners suddenly disappeared!

Posters  come onto this site with a demanding attitude and assume other members are going to jump high!

“Where is this place"....”I want that"....”I  need so and so"

If you want help or need advice please ask in a civil manner using the old fashioned “Please” and “ Thank you" and your plea for help could go miles further.

Thanks 

Steve.


Hi tebo53. (as your original OP) I was intrigued with your post ( & have addressed it before).

Manners & Politeness are viewed from which view-point right across the world. I only concentrate on this forum, which is mainly involved with "English" speaking in this country. I do take with a pinch of salt from either sides of Spanish speaking & English speaking overseas.

I have (after well over 25% of my adult life) been involved in Spain & my extended family, much longer. 

Ignoring, (in our modern world of forums, internet, Alexa & messaging), concentrate on the differences of both sides. I have (this week & on this forum) both received & witnessed "English" ( as is:spoken language)  "supposed" attitude.

     Many Spanish have asked me, Why do others say eg:"Excuse me, if you wouldn't mind passing me the salt, please if you don´t mind?" when we sitting at table just indicate or say, "salt" & continue the conversation. 

Respect, as earned, is in Spain assumed, (in my experience). It seems, to me, for many moving here into Spain, seem unaccustomed that assumed respect, when, eg: entering a shop/post office.....whatever, most will turn & will wish you a good day & offer any help they can. If we can offer that on eg: forums, we can promote respect, in whichever way we view "manners" & "politeness".

(In my opinion.)

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