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Musti59

Posted: Sat May 14, 2022 7:25pm

Musti59

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Posts: 7

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Location: La Marina

Joined: 13 May 2022

Posted: Sat May 14, 2022 7:25pm

elinspain wrote on Sat May 14, 2022 2:01pm:

Hi Musti

 I  too want to apologise on behave of your ignorant English neighbours & let you know we are not all the same, please don't think that way. I hate racism in all it's forms, it really hurts my heart but it just doesn't  ever go away does it?

 You have had the best suggestions from other people so I can't add any more help except to say.....Your happiness is more important than the cost/inconvenience of moving again so do what you have to do to find that , maybe you could rent somewhere for a while, before you buy again .

Good Luck.

 I hope you find peace and kindness where ever you  go to live.

Cheers

El  inspain

Dear elinspain

Thank you for your support 

I understand not all people are some iam to iam a British citizen I was living in uk 22years I started my live form 180eur with hard work I buyed house around Heathrow and here in Spain lamarina urbanization I just would have easy live with my wife but I buy house but not neighbour.  My mother all ways teach as respect our self and onther. I feel like iam like bee I go around flowers and make honey I benefit my self and other people around me. Some people are like mostico no have any benefit from them as my neighbour. I will find something I will go to Algeria with my wife if she like it I will sale my house and move to Algeria with her I have nice country just the culture defirnt to my wife ? my wife is from European country. We will see

Thank you very much 

Best regards 

Musti

Musti59

Posted: Sat May 14, 2022 7:32pm

Musti59

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Posts: 7

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Location: La Marina

Joined: 13 May 2022

Posted: Sat May 14, 2022 7:32pm

Relyat wrote on Sat May 14, 2022 2:09pm:

I wonder if any other members of the forum who live in La Marina feel able to lend support? 

Dear relyat 

Thank you very much for your support 

Iam I fighter never give up I was living in UK for 22 years I never have problems with people like that I was mixed with people around the world first time I feel someone don't like me because we are defirnt culture ( racism) . I will find solutions I hope soo 

Best regards 

Musti

Relyat

Posted: Sat May 14, 2022 7:48pm

Relyat

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Posts: 907

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Joined: 12 Jul 2018

Posted: Sat May 14, 2022 7:48pm

Musti59 wrote on Sat May 14, 2022 7:32pm:

Dear relyat 

Thank you very much for your support 

Iam I fighter never give up I was living in UK for 22 years I never have problems with people like that I was mixed with people around the world first time I feel someone don't like me because we are defirnt culture ( racism) . I will find solutions I hope soo 

Best regards 

Musti

I hope that you find a way to stay. 

Nobody should be made to leave their home, particularly not due to the actions of a racist bully. 

Best wishes to you. 

Nita12

Posted: Mon May 16, 2022 5:50am

Posts: 13

6 helpful points

Location: La Marina

Joined: 2 May 2019

Posted: Mon May 16, 2022 5:50am

We have been here 3 years and have found that the people here on la marina urb are 

rude,unhelpful, decitful, and unfriendly we have also been robbed of  money do to people recommending friends that will help you and just take your money ...you will also find it's the people who have been here a while that are the worse

 We are in the same situation as you ...our  neighbor's  was telling lies to each other about us  so none of then speak to us now .. I find it funny that old people act this way .....  . I will not let them brother me they will not  upset my dream of living in Spain  .. I am also  English  but not like them lol and it's shameful I know my Spanish is poor I am trying to learn the language ..... My advice it's Get of the urb get  out and about there's some beautiful places to see .. we go off the urb and the people are more approachable and more friendly don't let them force you to leave as Spain is a beautiful place to live 

Wishing you all the best 

Musti59

Posted: Mon May 16, 2022 8:35am

Musti59

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Posts: 7

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Location: La Marina

Joined: 13 May 2022

Posted: Mon May 16, 2022 8:35am

Nita12 wrote on Mon May 16, 2022 5:50am:

We have been here 3 years and have found that the people here on la marina urb are 

rude,unhelpful, decitful, and unfriendly we have also been robbed of  money do to people recommending friends that will help you and just take your money ...you will also find it's the people who have been here a while that are the worse...

...

 We are in the same situation as you ...our  neighbor's  was telling lies to each other about us  so none of then speak to us now .. I find it funny that old people act this way .....  . I will not let them brother me they will not  upset my dream of living in Spain  .. I am also  English  but not like them lol and it's shameful I know my Spanish is poor I am trying to learn the language ..... My advice it's Get of the urb get  out and about there's some beautiful places to see .. we go off the urb and the people are more approachable and more friendly don't let them force you to leave as Spain is a beautiful place to live 

Wishing you all the best 

Dear Nita 

Realy same with our neighbour realy shameful as humans ?? does matter where we came from we rich this stage . I will take your advice move from here . Best option 

Best regards 

Musti

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paulsav

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 11:18am

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Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 11:18am

Musti59 wrote on Mon May 16, 2022 8:35am:

Dear Nita 

Realy same with our neighbour realy shameful as humans ?? does matter where we came from we rich this stage . I will take your advice move from here . Best option 

Best regards 

Musti

As you and Nita12 are experiencing similar situations, could you not both get together and become friends? Just having that friendship would give you the confidence to ignore your disgusting neighbours. Go to each others houses, sit outside together, show your neighbours you have friends and you are not going to be victimised by their cruel antics. With each others support you will find you are less upset by these people who pick on you as you are solitary victims. Don't let them bully you out of your homes, you have a right to a peaceful life. Nita12 is advising you to get out and about, see the beauty around you, not sell up and leave. Don't let the bullies win. 

Good luck

Regards 

Pauline 

Manda

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 11:31am

Posts: 44

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Location: Rojales

Joined: 30 Jun 2018

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 11:31am

Musti59 wrote on Sat May 14, 2022 12:02pm:

Dear kim

Thank you again for your support 

I understand if someone does not like me as neighbour but we need to respect each other as humans. Just good morning how are you something like that is enough?

We have a old nice  lady from Netherland she is far 4 house from us all this house around  I believe holiday houses .

Sometimes if me and my wife staying outside in our balcony we have icecream we hear our neighbour WHY we stay outside we don't feel we owned our house realy crazy. My wife she is Europeanian  very good lady . We meet in London. 

Me and my wife we are like bee go around flowers and make honey we benefit us and people around us.

Our neighbour they are like mostico no one like live with mostico. 

We will try?

My wife worry if English people live  around they believe we are bad .?? We don't know any community English around we can talk to they and we showing tonthem we are nice poeple 

Thank you very much you take your time to read and to reply .

The END no one take with him anything we build we save money .children .wife, the end we leave everything behind ?  without return 

Best regards 

Musti 

Come and live at La Fiesta in Quesada. We are British and live in a mixed community. You would be very welcome. We all get along well and chat happily irrespective of nationality. We've even been invited to a wedding by our Belgian and French neighbours. Please don't let the idiot ruin your experience of living here. And good luck, whatever you decide.

FerdiC

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 4:11pm

Posts: 10

5 helpful points

Location: Almoradí

Joined: 25 Sep 2020

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 4:11pm

Musti59 wrote on Sat May 14, 2022 7:12pm:

Dear stephanie 

Thank you very much for your support 

I know not all people are some I understand that and I can't say all British are bad iam to I can say iam a British citizen I was living in London 22 years I start my life in the uk from 180 euros iam a self educated person 2001 I knew just I love you , iam looking for a job .and I can use my finger one ,two ..until ten I was working so hard to save money I buy my house around Heathrow 7 years I payed off just I can to Spain yo relax here in lamarina urbanization is my house I own it .I can go back to Algeria my country I wil live very very very good Algeria beautiful country we have weather like Spain we have Mountain , sea, sahara just my wife she European don't whant her to  live in country different cultures as my country. We will find way ? Or we try to avoid them as much as we can 

Thank you very much 

Best regards 

Musti 

We have Moroccan neighbours and there great, best place would be Almoradi or Dolores, very friendly and lots of Moroccan and Algerian community here 

Jackie adam

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 5:46pm

Posts: 37

31 helpful points

Location: Benidorm

Joined: 28 Jan 2021

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 5:46pm

Musti59 wrote on Fri May 13, 2022 11:34pm:

Dear kim

Thank you very much to reply and you take time to read my message 

Iam Algerian and my neighbour are English the live at 112 parque del Danubio all times talk like we drop rubbish and we run way from our country? Around English people about us bad and me and my wife we tried to find out why ? This thinks ? Why We are bad neighbour? we tried as friendly they don't give anything for 8 months like that I reported to police and we had a meeting with them at police in san Fulgencio but still some . My wife realy under pressure.  Bust option is to sell our house I know in will loose money to sale it and move far way from here try to find same place with spainch or Moroccan people it will be better 

Best regards 

Musti 

That is discusting behavior from the English immigrants they are not in there own country now so should learn to behave in another country I would not move because of them but I understand your predicament  so sorry for there behaviour 

Jackie adam

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 5:50pm

Posts: 37

31 helpful points

Location: Benidorm

Joined: 28 Jan 2021

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 5:50pm

Kimmy11 wrote on Sat May 14, 2022 10:39am:

Hi Musti,

I'm so sorry that you and your wife are going through this, and I'm disgusted that it's a fellow Brit who is doing this to you.  Many of us do not share your neighbours' despicable opinions.

It sounds like you've already tried the things that I suggested, but if your racist neighbour wasn't even shamed by having to meet with the police, I doubt anyone else calling him out on his vile behaviour will help.

You are right that a Spanish community will be more welcoming - Spanish people don't share the sense of superiority and entitlement that, sadly, afflicts too many British people.  Your neighbour doesn't even seem to understand the stupidity of suggesting that you've "run away from your country", when exactly the same thing could be suggested about them!  

I guess you have 2 options: sell up and move, or stay and fight against the racism.  Do you have other neighbours who are sympathetic to your situation?  Perhaps they could help by reporting the racism they witness to the police too?

It makes me angry that you could be driven out of your home by bigoted neighbours.

Kind regards, 

Kim

Well said these aragant brits  forget that they are immigrants  now in someone elses country and have the nerve to be racist they ought to be ashamed of themselfs 

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