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Named and Shamed

Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:57am
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This is a post I feel compelled to write regarding a post by a Gary Hemlin on Facebook this morning to his group Named and Shamed. In it he admonishes the group for berating posters when they share their bad experiences of being scammed etc and then the poster then receives a torrent of abuse, not only causing more distress to the poster but descending the group into argumentative chaos. No matter what your opinions are about our groups recent issues, remember Alex as administrator was adamant he did not wish our group to descend to the levels of the Facebook group which I am a member of and I have to admit I too have winced over many recent posts for the same reason. This is one of the nicest, respectful, most helpful, well meaning groups on the Web, let's just keep it that way. 

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 3:49pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 3:49pm

Hi paulsav

I’m a bit puzzled. I’ve just checked out the post, by Gary Hemlin, on Named and Shamed CB. The only responses that I can see appear to be very supportive of what he’s saying.🤪🥂

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:23pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:23pm

Angebadge wrote on Tue Sep 22, 2020 3:49pm:

Hi paulsav

I’m a bit puzzled. I’ve just checked out the post, by Gary Hemlin, on Named and Shamed CB. The only responses that I can see appear to be very supportive of what he’s saying.🤪🥂

Yes Ange but his comments initially were about the abuse the posters were getting on that group when they were sharing their experiences. It epitomised exactly what Alex was trying to avoid. Perhaps you may need to read it again? 

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:26pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:26pm

paulsav wrote on Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:23pm:

Yes Ange but his comments initially were about the abuse the posters were getting on that group when they were sharing their experiences. It epitomised exactly what Alex was trying to avoid. Perhaps you may need to read it again? 

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Hi Pauline

I think what I did was not quite get your post! I thought you were saying he was being abused. When I read it again, I got it 🤪🥂

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:07pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:07pm

Angebadge wrote on Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:26pm:

Hi Pauline

I think what I did was not quite get your post! I thought you were saying he was being abused. When I read it again, I got it 🤪🥂

No problem, just thought it would give some relevance to recent issues on the forum. 

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:12pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:12pm

Thanks, Paulsav, but I think you're preaching to the converted :o)  I joined Costa Blanca Named & Shamed and lasted about 5 days - the abuse on it was awful!  I don't think Facebook is actually a helpful format for that type of site either.  In terms of this forum, I think the ones who wanted a Name & Shame section have left for pastures new.  Personally, I absolutely support Alex's approach on this.

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:40pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:40pm

I for one am hoping that the recent issues, regarding naming and shaming, have been put well and truly to bed. There was much unpleasantness, with some members clamouring for the opportunity to name and shame

I’m still puzzled why it seemed so important, particularly when there is a dedicated Facebook site where, as acknowledged by Kimmy and paulsav, people can go to knock, verbally, the proverbial out of each other.

Lots of members now, having been absent for a while, appear to be confident to both post and respond. Onwards and upwards for CBF I think

I understand that some forums are unmoderated. I prefer the steadying hand of Alex🤪🥂

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:49pm

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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:49pm

paulsav wrote on Tue Sep 22, 2020 8:23pm:

Yes Ange but his comments initially were about the abuse the posters were getting on that group when they were sharing their experiences. It epitomised exactly what Alex was trying to avoid. Perhaps you may need to read it again? 

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Pauline 

Yes, I think those calling for a "name and shame" on this forum intentionally wanted this forum to descend into chaos, arguments and abuse, as paulsav has showed us above with details on the chaos on the Facebook name and shame group. 

Those who asked for a name and shame section on this forum seemed to thrive on that sort of negative atmosphere. It is much better to have a friendly forum, and those that want to waste their time arguing or abusing people have the freedom to use Facebook or other forums!


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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2020 12:06am

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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2020 12:06am

Alex wrote on Tue Sep 22, 2020 10:49pm:

Yes, I think those calling for a "name and shame" on this forum intentionally wanted this forum to descend into chaos, arguments and abuse, as paulsav has showed us above with details on the chaos on the Facebook name and shame group. 

Those who asked for a name and shame section on this forum seemed to thrive on that sort of negative atmosphere. It is much better to have a friendly forum, and those that want to waste their time arguing or abusing people have the freedom to use Facebook or other forums!...

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I have personally never been on Facebook. The "FB" name of "Name & Shame" have a feel of ideas (positively or negatively) of others advertising their "wares". 

I would rather have factual information of those legally advertising on forums & consumers comparing their positive or negative services received & experiences. This, with evidence, may only aid the readers. Or not? 

I´m thinking of the such-like of "Which? a United Kingdom brand name that promotes informed consumer choice in the purchase of goods and services by testing products.

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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2020 12:28am

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Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2020 12:28am

Villas wrote on Wed Sep 23, 2020 12:06am:

I have personally never been on Facebook. The "FB" name of "Name & Shame" have a feel of ideas (positively or negatively) of others advertising their "wares". 

I would rather have factual information of those legally advertising on forums & consumers comparing their positive or negative services received & experiences. This, with evidence, may only aid the readers. Or not? ...

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I´m thinking of the such-like of "Which? a United Kingdom brand name that promotes informed consumer choice in the purchase of goods and services by testing products.

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Hi Villas

Perhaps a visit to Named and Shamed on Facebook is in order 😄. It’s not much like “Which”, I can assure you. I’d liken it more to kicking out time at some pubs, on a Saturday night, where all the customers have consumed about ten pints; a free for all

Beer in, brains out, comes to mind 🤪🥂

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