I am so sorry to hear that your beloved husband has died. This must has been the most dreadful blow to you and the children. I think you are extremely brave and positive to be even considering buying a property abroad but you are thinking so the least we can all do is offer some sensible advice
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You must buy somewhere that you can access easily.
Public transport or walking has to be on the cards.
Close to the sea is always a dream.
All year round life…. vital.
Somewhere your teenage children will enjoy.
Alicante is lovely but I don’t know very much to offer by way of advice other than I think property may be more pricey.
Torrevieja It’s a working town with year round attractions. Very Spanish but becoming more and more upmarket all the time. The marina is beautiful. There are many apartments close to the sea. Bus service is very good and cheap.
La Mata. Probably one of my favourite places. Stunning long, Sandy beach. Some stunning new build apartments overlooking the sea. Lots of lovely properties all within walking distance of the sea. Numerous restaurants. Very safe and friendly.
Guardamar. Another beautiful coastal resort. Well worth a visit.
Santa Pola. Class. I love it too. I’ve always thought I’d have considered it if I’d seen it first. Possibly a little more expensive but that’s my thinking Check it out. Not far from the airport
Punta Prima Lovely. Coastal
La Zenia. Lovely coastal
All the other areas on the far side of Torrevieja are vast. Built in the last 20 years for tourists. Terrible traffic jams if travelling in or out if Torrevieja . No need to go into Torrevieja as numerous restaurants and shops serving te area. English. You wouldn’t be lonely as you’ll have lots of English speaking neighbours. Great shopping centre called Zenia Boulevard.
Further along the coast there are several resort areas and all lovely but you’ll benefit from having a car.
Buying over in Spain is easy but sometimes not as easy to sell. You’ll need to be sure where and what you are buying.
Most people will strongly advise rental before signing on the dotted line.
Keeping a property here costs money. Think hard and fast before investing. You’d need to be absolutely certain that you know what you are doing. Discuss the idea with your children. Listen to what they are saying.
We bought our house over 20 years ago near La Mata. We have never regretted it. Our children are all grown up with families of their own and try to visit when they can but it’s the two of us that spend the greatest time here. Every time we come out, we spend money on the house! Yes. It’s by choice but a house has to be cared for and that takes money. Please think long and hard before you jump into a purchase. Be certain you are doing the right thing for yourself and fir your children.
Good luck.