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tebo53

Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 9:28am

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 9:28am

Brooky wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 7:59am:

Thank you so much! We really appreciate it. 

Hi,

Did he have a younger brother called David?

Was Brian born 12/08/1957?

If Yes to those two questions then I will PM you.

Steve 

Brooky

Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 7:54pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 7:54pm

tebo53 wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 9:28am:

Hi,

Did he have a younger brother called David?

Was Brian born 12/08/1957?

If Yes to those two questions then I will PM you.

Steve 

Sorry for the late reply was trying to get some confirmation from my sister (not his daughter ha ha)  regarding his brother and she says yes that all matches up 

tebo53

Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 8:08pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 8:08pm

Brooky wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 7:54pm:

Sorry for the late reply was trying to get some confirmation from my sister (not his daughter ha ha)  regarding his brother and she says yes that all matches up 

I've sent you a private message. 

Steve 

GerryJ

Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 8:59pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 8:59pm

Good luck in your quest and hope Steve has usable info... I spent years looking for mine, but didn't have a resource like the internet and was ultimately unsuccessful. 

tebo53

Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 10:02pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 10:02pm

GerryJ wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 8:59pm:

Good luck in your quest and hope Steve has usable info... I spent years looking for mine, but didn't have a resource like the internet and was ultimately unsuccessful. 

Together we brought this to a conclusion.

Thank you to everyone who has shown concern. 

Steve 

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GerryJ

Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 10:10pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 10:10pm

tebo53 wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 10:02pm:

Together we brought this to a conclusion.

Thank you to everyone who has shown concern. 

Steve 

Thanks for the update. Good to hear

Grannyrose

Posted: Fri Sep 9, 2022 10:32am

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Posted: Fri Sep 9, 2022 10:32am

tebo53 wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 8:08pm:

I've sent you a private message. 

Steve 

Just wanted to say Well done Steve.  That was terribly decent of you to help find that girl’s long lost father. You are a hero!

I hope Paula and her father are reunited.

Please update us as a feel good story is something we all love. 

Brooky

Posted: Fri Sep 9, 2022 10:37am

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Grannyrose wrote on Fri Sep 9, 2022 10:32am:

Just wanted to say Well done Steve.  That was terribly decent of you to help find that girl’s long lost father. You are a hero!

I hope Paula and her father are reunited.

Please update us as a feel good story is something we all love. 

He has passed away and left 5 kids he had nothing to do with. Unfortunately not very feel good other than me finding more siblings 

tebo53

Posted: Fri Sep 9, 2022 10:49am

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Posted: Fri Sep 9, 2022 10:49am

Grannyrose wrote on Fri Sep 9, 2022 10:32am:

Just wanted to say Well done Steve.  That was terribly decent of you to help find that girl’s long lost father. You are a hero!

I hope Paula and her father are reunited.

Please update us as a feel good story is something we all love. 

Thanks Grannyrose. Unfortunately in the end it didn't work out happily. I am pleased that after all the searches she has had partial closure.

Steve 

Grannyrose

Posted: Fri Sep 9, 2022 4:12pm

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Posted: Fri Sep 9, 2022 4:12pm

What a bitter disappointment for you but in truth, you might have met him and found that he wasn’t what you had dreamed of all your life.   Perhaps your mother had reason to want to protect you all these years. The wonderful thing is that you now are a member of a bigger family than you were aware of. Blood is thicker than water so I hope you are fortunate enough to find your siblings are all as decent as you are. With Steve’s help, you can now move forward and if I were you I’d probably convince myself that your father was a good man who sadly lost his way in life. None of us are perfect  and life can be very tough for some. 
Best wishes,

Grannyrose. 

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