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Jane1965

Posted: Sun Oct 2, 2022 4:27pm

Jane1965

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Posted: Sun Oct 2, 2022 4:27pm

Jean74 wrote on Sun Oct 2, 2022 4:06pm:

Hi myself and my husband bought in 2004 with intention of moving permanently but I couldn't do it we have 5 all grown up children and lots of grandchildren and I just couldn't leave them then in 2015 I decided it was time our children were all for us moving said we would have more quality time wi...

...th them when we see them so 2 months into the move my husband had a massive stroke and our lives change forever he is recovery was a long one and he is still partially disabled we were getting our lives back untill last year he was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer T point I'm trying to make is I wish I had made the move earlier and we could have enjoyed our time now it's all about his health an hospital visits YOU don't feel guilty and don't be putting anything off life is too short and sometimes very unfair your son will have a great time coming for visits and you to him Live your life we never know he how long we have God Bless (Sorry for the long letter) Jean  

Jean, I am sorry to hear about your husband and I fully agree, we must live for today and put ourselves first some times. I bought my home in Banos de Europa, Fase 3 in February and I am still working full time as I'm 57. I plan to retire alot sooner that the state expects us too. 

We must live for today, as tomorrow may never come. I'm a team leader in a care home so I know how emotional it is to support others. 

I'm always here if you need someone to speak too.

God bless you

Jane

I had to step in your chat as I've 4 children and like you, they want you to put yourself and your husband first.

I hope he is getting all of the care and support he needs.

Catherina1998

Posted: Sun Oct 2, 2022 6:38pm

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Posted: Sun Oct 2, 2022 6:38pm

Jean74 wrote on Sun Oct 2, 2022 4:06pm:

Hi myself and my husband bought in 2004 with intention of moving permanently but I couldn't do it we have 5 all grown up children and lots of grandchildren and I just couldn't leave them then in 2015 I decided it was time our children were all for us moving said we would have more quality time wi...

...th them when we see them so 2 months into the move my husband had a massive stroke and our lives change forever he is recovery was a long one and he is still partially disabled we were getting our lives back untill last year he was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer T point I'm trying to make is I wish I had made the move earlier and we could have enjoyed our time now it's all about his health an hospital visits YOU don't feel guilty and don't be putting anything off life is too short and sometimes very unfair your son will have a great time coming for visits and you to him Live your life we never know he how long we have God Bless (Sorry for the long letter) Jean  

So so sorry to heAr this and thank you so so much and agree like us so short especially as I have health issues and that is the reason I came over here my son dosnt understand fully god bless you ❤️❤️❤️

Jean74

Posted: Mon Oct 3, 2022 12:32pm

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Posted: Mon Oct 3, 2022 12:32pm

Catherina1998 wrote on Sun Oct 2, 2022 6:38pm:

So so sorry to heAr this and thank you so so much and agree like us so short especially as I have health issues and that is the reason I came over here my son dosnt understand fully god bless you ❤️❤️❤️

I am in Ireland at the moment swing my family and I I am feeling sad leaving them next week but if I'm honest I can't wait to get to my home in Spain this visit has opened my eyes to the reason we moved in first place my children/ grandchildren are all healthy and happy and I love seeing them but my home is Spain now and I look forward to them visiting and enjoying the sunshine just like we do so live your life and remember your son is very lucky he now has 2 homes and a wonderful mum who loves him. Look after yourself be good to yourself and enjoy life 😊 

Catherina1998

Posted: Mon Oct 3, 2022 12:51pm

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Posted: Mon Oct 3, 2022 12:51pm

Jean74 wrote on Mon Oct 3, 2022 12:32pm:

I am in Ireland at the moment swing my family and I I am feeling sad leaving them next week but if I'm honest I can't wait to get to my home in Spain this visit has opened my eyes to the reason we moved in first place my children/ grandchildren are all healthy and happy and I love seeing them but...

... my home is Spain now and I look forward to them visiting and enjoying the sunshine just like we do so live your life and remember your son is very lucky he now has 2 homes and a wonderful mum who loves him. Look after yourself be good to yourself and enjoy life 😊 

Thank you so so much all the responses are great I’ve come to the realisation it’s me feeling same due to having no parents as they left six of us when we where very very young and we all had to be separated I’m really struggling my stomach very very anxious and nervous how long are you living here in Spain and where thank you god bless 

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