I’m presuming that you are on your own. That being the case, you are bound to be feeling lost Don’t do anything rash. Going back home won’t help your health particularly during the cold, damp winter. Book a couple of flights and go over for a couple of visits. I guarantee you’ll ac...
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...tually miss the feel good factor that life in Spain offers. Don’t cut yourself off altogether. If I were you, I’d book flights and go over to see my son and all other family and friends. Could you invite your son over for Christmas and make fun plans for his visit? Our children are only on loan to us. They must be allowed their freedom to forge a life out for themselves. Please don’t make your son feel guilty. Allow him to believe that you are making a good life for yourself but you miss him and need to see him. There’s nothing wrong with loving your children, we’re all guilty of that. My son ( my baby) got married and has a little daughter now who he tells me he loves more than life. That’s how it works. His wife and daughter are now his life and we are his special father and mother who take second place in his life.
Don’t be sad. Have a good cry if that helps and find the strength to understand that you are at the helm of your life. Only you can forge out a life for yourself. Join some classes, meet other lonely people. Volunteer at a charity shop . Small steps! You can do it . Don’t allow your loneliness to ruin your new life. Remember, you must have wanted to make this change and well done for getting up and doing it. Buy a dog and go walking. So many people stop to talk to dog owners. I wish I could give you a big hug and tell you to believe in yourself.
Remember, small steps. Keep us updated. Be good to yourself.
Love Grannyrose x