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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:16pm
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I've just read a post from yesterday, along with subsequent replies, and it concerns me a little.

The poster said she was this chaps daughter and was trying to locate him as she had been estranged from him for years. Helpful as ever the forum members have stepped up and possibly located him.

Question is though, how do you know this is his daughter? It could be anyone looking for him. We all have histories don't we?

Anyone I want to keep in touch with in the UK has my contact details in Spain and I would hate the thought of my location and details being given to some random with a believable story who wants to find me for whatever reason.

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:25pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:25pm

Rob60 wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:16pm:

I've just read a post from yesterday, along with subsequent replies, and it concerns me a little.

The poster said she was this chaps daughter and was trying to locate him as she had been estranged from him for years. Helpful as ever the forum members have stepped up and possibly located him.

Question is though, how do you know this is his daughter? It could be anyone looking for him. We all have histories don't we?

Anyone I want to keep in touch with in the UK has my contact details in Spain and I would hate the thought of my location and details being given to some random with a believable story who wants to find me for whatever reason.

I am the person in contact with the lady trying to find her dad. Believe me I will not give his personal details out unless I am absolutely certain that she is his daughter. There are several questions I need answered before I will continue. I know the person who we think may be her dad personally and I won't get persuaded to part with information. I have nothing to gain or lose in this matter.

Steve 

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:33pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:33pm

Really good to hear. There are some very 'iffy' people out there.

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:38pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:38pm

Rob60 wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:33pm:

Really good to hear. There are some very 'iffy' people out there.

Thanks for your concern though its nice to know people are still bothered.

Steve 

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:44pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:44pm

tebo53 wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:38pm:

Thanks for your concern though its nice to know people are still bothered.

Steve 

Protection of privacy is high on my agenda and something I was governed by strictly in the UK until I retired to Spain.

Hope all works out with Dad and estranged daughter.

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 5:13pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 5:13pm

tebo53 wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 4:25pm:

I am the person in contact with the lady trying to find her dad. Believe me I will not give his personal details out unless I am absolutely certain that she is his daughter. There are several questions I need answered before I will continue. I know the person who we think may be her dad personall...

...y and I won't get persuaded to part with information. I have nothing to gain or lose in this matter.

Steve 

As always a complex history may emerge and with two or more sides to the story.

Luckily you are going about this situation with kindness and caution.

Wishing everyone a successful outcome.

Regards 

Maria

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 5:20pm

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Posted: Wed Sep 7, 2022 5:20pm

MeathMaria wrote on Wed Sep 7, 2022 5:13pm:

As always a complex history may emerge and with two or more sides to the story.

Luckily you are going about this situation with kindness and caution.

Wishing everyone a successful outcome.

Regards 

Maria

Thanks. I can imagine it will be complex when (if) the time comes. I have some failsafe questions to ask first.

Steve 

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