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So fed up with the ignorant people on this site

Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 12:57am
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anna66

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When one responds to someones request one this site I would think it only a matter of good manners to respond even in the negativ, so many ignorant people , 

Anna

Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 5:06am

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 5:06am

Hi Anna. Such behaviour doesn't bother some people, but it does me. I keep tabs on those who don't display good manners, and don't respond to their posts. Fortunately, the majority of people who post regularly on the forum do have good manners and respond appropriately.

Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 5:51am

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 5:51am

Thanks for understanding my frustration Jim, their behaviour drives me crazy and I'm actually thinking of leaving the forum because  some of the people on it have messed me about so much over the past couple of years, I just feel like I've had enough of ignoramouses.

Anna

Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 8:05am

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 8:05am

anna66 wrote on Fri Oct 19, 2018 12:57am:

When one responds to someones request one this site I would think it only a matter of good manners to respond even in the negativ, so many ignorant people , 

Anna

Hi Anna I’m like you and Jim, good manners cost nothing. The majority of this forum,as Jim says do have good manners and contribute with excellent advice and information. Please don’t let a few make you leave this forum.

Enjoy your day.

Cathy

Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 8:47am

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 8:47am

Chill, plenty of other things in life to fret about.

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 4:49pm

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 4:49pm

Moving, I somewhat agree with you in that its not worth getting upset by such people, HOWEVER when people give advice and help out of the goodness of their heart using their own time to help then why would anyone want to be rude to them???  I just dont understand them....

Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 5:08pm

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 5:08pm

The OP wrote "some of the people on it (the forum) have messed me about so much over the past couple of years" which suggests something more than simply not getting thanked for a reply or advice given.

Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 6:11pm

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 6:11pm

Spot on Kimmy

Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 11:16pm

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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2018 11:16pm

anna66 wrote on Fri Oct 19, 2018 12:57am:

When one responds to someones request one this site I would think it only a matter of good manners to respond even in the negativ, so many ignorant people , 

Anna

The one thing I repeat is...........it is none of our business what people think of us.

OK so it has taken me to my 50's to really understand and practice but it has set me free from the worry and upset it used to cause me.

If someone is rude.........their problem.

We are all on our own individual journies in this life and the only thing we can control is our own thoughts.

Happy weekend everyone.

Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2018 7:05am

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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2018 7:05am

Yorkshire Lass wrote on Fri Oct 19, 2018 8:05am:

Hi Anna I’m like you and Jim, good manners cost nothing. The majority of this forum,as Jim says do have good manners and contribute with excellent advice and information. Please don’t let a few make you leave this forum.

Enjoy your day.

 

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Cathy

Hej all, thanks for your advice and support, will see what happens in the next couple of months when I shall advertise something for sale, last time two peple made appointments and no one came. I hate time wasters but cheers we'll see what happens this time.

Anna

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