Posted: Tue Mar 5, 2024 7:44am
I understand your frustration, but there may be other factors at play, that have made her change her mind about dealing with you in a ‘foreign language’ .. perhaps a colleague got into trouble because something important got lost in translation, and she decided not to take the risk - rather than any racial prejudice, or even because of anything specifically to do with your relationship with her.
As others have said, arguing your point won’t get you anywhere here, in Spain .. in fact, they’ll just dig their heels in even more! I would find yourself a reliable translator for all official appointments, unless they specifically state that you can conduct the appointment in English. And learn some basic Spanish. Might also be good to prepare in advance of any meetings or planned conversations, by Googling some key words or sentences beforehand. You’ll find the locals can be much more tolerant and meet you half way, if you have a go at speaking to them in Spanish, and appeal to their better nature!
There is a charity, based in San Miguel, called Help Vega Baja. For an annual membership fee of €10, they offer a range of services and discounts - one of them being free translators. They will organise someone for you, and you just pay their travel costs to wherever your appointment is.
I hope you get sorted. Good luck.